In recent years, thanks to my work, I meet more and more of TG (or very large …). For me, meet between TG, not segregation is to change the majority of a group, change of perspective. Spend an evening where I will not be an exception, finally, it helps to take a mental vacation.
With them, to follow the conversation, the trouble to sit all twisted face standing friends , the trouble to ignore the environment to dance without the feeling of being on the podium, the trouble of be cheerful, kind and patient all the time because everyone wants to talk to the TG!
I noted that the TG them take any excuse to talk when they are standing much heckling, express their strong emotions, make great gestures, clothes speak for hours … they can finally be themselves without scaring with their grand gestures and cries, without causing additional preconceptions from the Not great. In short, my nerve holidays, I regularly alongside the TG. It makes me more patient with others.
And patience, the TG really need it: in the daily social but also materially.
Last week, a friend gives me a web address to visit for maternity clothes and shoes.
Any hopeful I run and connect as often, I fall on THE problem for suppliers, sizes expand the length of the garment. I suggest to them that we are still numerous enough to be great… and thin! Ditto for shoes.
Like all TG, I am a crazy godasses. Inevitably, I spent more time crying in front of the windows to show off with my latest boots. I walk along the nonexistent ankle and calf very end so it’s very complicated.
Exit too high heels but also flat shoes that extend beyond measure my foot because of my ankle fine! Anyway ballerinas are too broad and I swim in the boots. The trick is mandatory. A ride at Spartoo and Zalando is needed …
For summer flat shoes, I offer a heel 2 cm, at least. Given our size difference, I assure you that 90% of people do not differentiate between 1m90 and 1m95! Anyway, since everyone will look at you, so build on the pace.
To maintain beauty and dignity of my beautiful approach I am careful to choose shoes that are attached or mounted on the ankle by avoiding too open and wide shoes with risk of crushing jaws.
(Right, my absolute dream as TG + woman + biker: a boot that protects my foot if dropped, that is sexy and feminine)
The fine heels are for TG perfectly aware of their center of gravity. Something the portion comes from my sister, men are crazy red shoes: they are the only shoes they notice outside the base shoe (the one that goes with the tailors).
For boots, I choose them in a very soft material to work around the problem of my width of my calf and I cheat by adding gaiters which allow me to hide the top of the boot (often much too large for me).
In all cases, some or your taste in shoes, pay attention to keep a nice approach: choose shoes in which you feel stable and allow you to walk without looking at your feet, contract your abdominals to keep you straight and down the stairs 3/4 like a princess during his first to the ball with one hand touching the railing.
I think it is always better to go for a crâneuse that for a girl that evil assumes its size.